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Tuesday, May 22, 2012

HOME

Our Oklahoma HOME
 We're really going to miss this place.  Even though its small and in a spotty neighborhood it has its coziness, character and our fingerprints all inside (and outside) of it.  We landscaped this front yard and JOey has put a ton of time into watering and maintaining it.  I painted the door red a month or so after moving in.
 This living room is where we spend most of our time.  It's evolved a lot over our four years here but this is what it looks like now.  After being here a year I sanded, primed and painted the knotty pine paneling and then painted it again 6 months later because I wanted it white.  Just last year I built and added the shelves/homework/coloring desk off the to the left. 
  It has been a really handy addition to our space.  The kids use it every day to do homework and it has kept their backpacks and papers from collecting on the dining table.  Georgie and Juliet color their a lot as well.  
 Georgie learned to Hula Hoop in this living room, Isaac as well.  The kids turn cartwheels, dance, watch YouTube Videos and of course have watched hundreds of movies.  Joey watches a couple shows every night while sitting at that end dining chair and eating chips and salsa and whatever dessert he can scrounge up in the house.  I join him sometimes.  This backdoor is always a thoroughfare of neighborhood kids and our kids running in and out, in and out.  
 The corner cabinets...one of the built ins that really made me fall in love with the house.  
There are two of them.
 Our front room.  We've had dozens of date nights in this room, all our friends piled on the sofa and love seats playing the envelope game, the name game or just chatting.  Our Christmas Tree went in the right hand corner and the mantle is really deep so it holds a lot of Halloween, Christmas and seasonal decorations.  The fire place is really beautiful.  We've roasted Marshmallows in there and played tons of games as a family in front of it.
 When we moved in this room was painted a bright orange (??).  If I can find this same color (Tinsmith by Sherwin Williams) in Italy I'll be using it.  I love the color.  It's so calming.
 The cool modern fan and the ancient solid oak door are my favorites in this shot.  Also the windows...the big huge windows.  The rooms with the big windows in this house are my favorites.  
I almost painted the door white on the back side...so glad that I didn't!!
 Our tiny kitchen!  
The girl we bought it from refinished it and she did a great job making use of every little space.  The back splash Kerry added for us a year or so ago .  The kitchen has no pantry but lots of cabinet space.  The oven is awesome (a double oven in one) and the sink we're really going to miss.  It's HUGE and deep.  I've done a lot of chopping, kneading and stirring in this kitchen.  It's been my place.


 This bedroom, now the master, was added by Kerry and a few contractors before Juliet was born.  I don't know what we did without it.  It's made ALL the difference in my loving the house.
 The old room was tiny and just on the other side of that large opening.  We use it as our office/piano room now.  I taught hundreds of piano lessons in that little nook.
 I'll always remember this backyard with Georgie running through it in a princess dress.  This was her playground.  When we moved here she was 2 years old and helped me plant flowers, build the garden, plant the garden every spring, played in the rain...the list goes on.  The second we arrive home, weather permitting, she's out the door playing out here. She spends an equal amount of time in the front yard catching butterflies or playing on the flagstone walkway or finding little nooks and hiding spots in our neighbors yards.  You can't see it from this shot but way in the back left hand corner Joey put in a sand box while the kids and I were away one spring.  He surprised them with it when we got home.  Georgie and Juliet still play in it.  The wild cats that roamed our neighborhood 2 years ago made a habit of crapping in it.  That was sure nice;)
 Off to the right in the neighbors yard you can see a scraggly looking apricot tree that leans over into our yard.  Before the drought last year that tree put out hundreds of apricots for us to eat every spring.  Some years were better than others but we'll always remember looking out the kids bedroom window and seeing "Popcorn Popping":)
 This teeny tiny bathroom was shared by all of us for over 2 years of our life here.  And when guests came we ALL shared it.  Those were some crowded times.  Now its just for the kids.  But we always get compliments from visitors on this sink.  We say "thank you" but we really can't take any credit.  The girl we bought it from picked it out.  
I was completely charmed by this phone box when we looked at the house 4 years ago.  
They don't put stuff like this in homes anymore.

 Family Dinners here...every night
 xoxo
 Juliet's room, the guest room and Isaac and Georgie's room (minus the crib) for nearly 2 years.  Man that was cramped for them.  I made the roman shades....they didn't turn out so great but it's still that many more of my hours put into a home.
 This is probably my favorite room in the house.  I don't know why.  I lay down in bed with them at night and I just think to myself, "I love this room"  It just feels safe in here.  I hope the kids remember it that way.  
 It used to be Joey and I's room.  I didn't like it then.  It was dark and...blah.  When we moved the kids in we were able to totally transform it.  Paint and homemade curtains mostly.  I think those were the only real improvements other than switching the furniture around.
 I painted the sliding doors on the closet with chalkboard paint but the kids almost never use it.  Isaacs legos are usually strewn all over the floor for everyone to step on!  He also likes to play outside but gets this room all to himself a lot...he and his legos!
 Their reading nook;)

It's been a great house.  It's the thing I'll miss the most for sure.  We'll miss people more than any "thing" but of all the "things" it will definitely be our home.  Joey feels particularly attached to it as well.  Sadly, we'll never, ever come back here.  I've been glad to learn from our realtor that it's going to a really great, kind family.  They have two 12 year old twin sons.  I was glad to hear that.  They'll be able to walk to the High School.  It's only a block and a half up the street.  I hope, for their sakes, that they love it as much as we have.  

Here's to 936 E Elm St and all the great years you've given us.  
We will think of you fondly!

xoxo
Ashley




Monday, May 14, 2012

LIzzy Comes to Town!!

Aunt Liz came to visit us in Dallas last weekend!  Woo Hoo!!  We felt so lucky!  Here are a few shots from our weekend.  

 Pappasitos...
we HAD to introduce this girl to Tex-Mex and she loved it...right Liz?
 Georgie fixed Juliets hair
 Big brother, big girl!
 Riding the kiddie drop ride at Six Flags
 The swings were a favorite.
CUTE!
 Sisters
 Aunt Lizzy and Juliet at the Blue Mesa Grill...YUMMY!  
Isaac lost his tooth.  
Check out that gap NOW!!


 soooooo big!



Thanks for taking time out for us Liz.  We wish it happened more often.  We look forward to the realizing of our plans to get you out to Italy for a few months after your mission.  Save your money girl!

xoxo




Sluffing School and The Haunted House

Sluffing School for A Haunted House

A couple of weeks ago I had a most interesting experience on a walk with a friend of mine.  There was a really old house in the neighborhood that I knew was being renovated and was vacant at the time so when we passed it, naturally, I wanted to peek in the windows.  My friend happens to be a very devout Muslim (I've learned sooo much!) and told me that the house was a "bad place" (English is her second language) and wouldn't come to look in the windows with me initially.  After my first peek I told her that she had to come take a look.  After a few minutes of snooping a mans face suddenly appeared in the window and scared the day lights out of my friend (poor thing...she was already nervous!)  He laughed at us and came out and began telling us how he was convinced that the place really was haunted.  He told us stories of pennies flying at him from no where, a whistling sound that frequently echoes through the house and tools that are found in new places when they come back to work the next morning.  My friend, Wejdan, promptly put a blessing on the house in Arabic and after a great discussion on ghosts and spirits beyond this life she removed herself to wait in the street.  I asked for a tour.  The house was beautiful inside.  100 years old and well taken care of, intricate wood work, gorgeous fireplaces, flooring....my kind of place.  The renovations were underway on the third floor and I talked more with the workers up there about it being haunted.  I asked them if I could come back and bring my kids.  They were so nice to agree.  I thought of Georgie a lot while in there and knew she would love the place as well as the fact that it was haunted.  She loves spooky stuff.  

Later that same day when I picked the kids up from school I told them all about my adventure that morning.  Both of them were very excited about the prospect of touring a haunted house.  I was quite surprised that they expressed no fear whatsoever.  So, on Tuesday of the following week I picked them up from school during their lunch hour and like a bunch of High Schoolers sluffing Chemistry we giggled the whole way, excited about our upcoming adventure.  
 Here they are eating their lunches in the car!
 wooooo!!!  Spooky!!  

Here's the plaque on the front steps.  1905.  Rumor has it that Dr. James E Fowler committed suicide in this house...but I'm not so sure about that tall tale;)  He was a prarie Doctor.  At the time he had this house built there was not a town near by for 50 miles.  
 The ground floor
The tiny secret pink room on the third floor
There were hidden halls, rooms and closets all over the place.  Georgie, of course, loved this little hide out.  Whatever little girl gets to call this room her own is one lucky little princess!

We didn't see or hear anything spooky while we were there, darnit.  The worker said it had been pretty quiet around there lately.  Maybe Wejdan's blessing really worked.  I told the guys we might be back for more because we'd love to see or hear something of the local ghost.  One of the guys rolled his eyes at me when I said that.  He didn't seem to be so sure about it's being haunted.  But its a fun story to tell so I'm stickin' to it!  

xoxo 

Mothers Day 2012

Happy Mothers Day to Me!

with love,
Isaac, Georgie, Juliet, Joey, MOm and Dad

The above people gave me a very special day! 
I woke up to a gift from Georgie full of her handprints painted into 12 different figures.  She was so excited to give it to me all weekend long;)  We sat in the front living room, all three of us and looked through all the pictures.  I will save it for always:)  Thank you Georgie!

 Joey made my Mom and I breakfast.  Spanish Tortillas with fruit and baguette, his specialty;)
 After church we did a photo op on the front steps.
 Me and my boy!
 My best girl!

 And my forever baby!!
My Mom, my safe place...

Gaga and her babies!

Juliet...too cute not to share!


And my "other" forever Mother, Ruth!

A couple of cute stories from the day.  I had my piano recital that evening and Isaac colored pictures for all the mothers in the room.  "Happy Mothers Day!" he wrote. "From: The Merbacks"  What a charmer;)  Georgie said to me this evening, "Mom, I forgot to give you another present...haha...but it cost like $30,000!"  Whatever it was I want it.  Sounds AWESOME!!

It feels nice to be celebrated, even if Hallmark made us do it.  I'm grateful to feel and know of my families appreciation as well as to extend my own to the Mothers in my life, my Mom, my Aunts and few choice friends.  Thank you Hallmark!

xoxo