Georgie turns 4
According to Georgie, turning 4 is a rite of passage marking total independence. I was met with gentle reminders of this fact the entire 12th of May. "I can brush my hair by myself...Mom, you stay out here, I can do this by myself now...Is this shirt for 4 year olds?...Are 4 year olds in my Dance Class?...Mom, I can't go to that class anymore, it's not for 4 year olds...4 year olds can cut their own pancakes.."etc. These were real discussions yesterday, no lie. Even her smile seemed more in control, and self assured. Yesterday evening, as she struggled with the button on her pajamas for the first time, finally accomplishing her goal, I hugged her tightly and gave her my "proud" smile. "Wow," I said, "you must be 4!" "Well, I think I'm almost 4 and a 1/2!" she replied, sheepishly. Four and 1/2 has been the subject of today's discussion. Four was working out so well for her that she felt deserving of a promotion!
Her day yesterday was spent in as much celebration as I had energy for. We started with a breakfast of blueberry pancakes, sausage and grapefruit in bed. Isaac got up early to help prepare it and sing to her. He got really into this tradition this year.
Georgie opened a couple of presents, including a new dress to wear for her birthday, took Isaac to school and then we took some pretty pictures of her out in the yard.
For lunch she and I went out to a cute little girly restaurant called Grapevine Cafe. After this sophisticated lunch, with her climbing under the table and lifting up my skirts the entire time, we headed off to her dance recital practice.
Her friends sang her Happy Birthday while she giggled.
We watched movies all day in the car (a real treat), went to a friend's house for cake, and she buried her face with her hands while we sang this time. We then came home for her dinner of choice. She wanted Swedish Meatballs, Noodles, Broccoli and fruit. She didn't have to help set the table or clean up her room. Isaac and I filled in the gaps and she felt quite pampered! She opened a few more gifts, the rest of which will be opened tomorrow at her play date with cupcakes at the park. We're not doing birthday parties this year.
As your mother, Georgie, you might guess that I am in awe that 4 years have passed, that your childhood seems so fleeting, that today I am remembering your toddler years vividly...yadah, yadah, yadah. I won't deny it. But it wasn't a sad day for me. You were having way too much fun for me not to completely enjoy what you are right now!! At dinner last night I listed my favorite thing about you as being your fun, quirky personality. You're always surprising us with your confidence, independence and your take-charge personality. You love playing and being anything that makes you feel big. The most ridiculous things come out of your mouth and in your actions to manifest your "big-ness", which only sometimes includes being bossy. So far you've found that balance and we wouldn't list bossy as one of your defining features. Your Dad's favorite thing about you is your resilience. You seem to be somewhat level headed and unemotional. Your feelings are rarely hurt and if they are, it's only moments before you are on about your business. And Isaac loves that you play with him. You two are truly the best of friends. Happy Birthday, baby G. We love you!