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MerBack In Action: An Online Journal

Monday, April 13, 2009

I feel a journal entry coming on!  I have no idea what I'm going to say except that I think I need to document a little bit about the kids, what they're saying, what they're doing, how they're changing.  Because they are.  Immensely.  JOey's been uploading all our home videos into our external hard drive.  As they upload, they play on the laptop in the background.  It has been so fun to remember Isaac and G as "littler" people.  And to realize how much they've grown.  Here's a little bit about them now:

Isaac:

Isaac is learning to read.  He is resistant to much instruction and is reticent to read for us because "those are hard words" but once you get him going he's a good little reader.  He gets so excited when he reigns triumphant over a page!  Today he spelled "elefant" and "igloo" phoneticly (sp?).   

Isaac is learning to play soccer.  I sense that this has been a big stress in his life, actually.   He's getting better little by little and asks for Joey to go out and play with him a lot of the time.  He wants to practice.  But then before the games and practice he gets grumpy and says he hates soccer and doesn't want to go.  If he gets his foot on the ball at all he just grins from ear to ear.  If I wasn't his parent I could enjoy watching him play a little more (and I should be able to anyway!) because about 89% of his second game he spent in La-La land...shooting at things, dancing with his shadow and talking to himself.  It was hilariously frustrating!  I think he'll not do that too much next time.  We talked with him a little bit about helping out his teamates.  He did much better at the next practice.  I'm looking forward to seeing him progress or maybe decide it's not for him.  Whatever he chooses.

Isaac is very curious.  He asks a lot of questions about the things Joey and I talk about, things he picks up on in movies etc.  Today he asked who and where "bad" people are.  I won't go into my response but we ended up talking about war and he couldn't seem to get enough information about it all.  

Isaac loves to make-believe play.  He is always sword fighting something into a corner.  He does amazing sound effects complete with Star Wars music being hummed in between blows.  Lately he's been watching Star Wars 1 and loving all the characters from that movie.  

Isaac is incredibly sensitive.  Isaac loves for me to crawl in bed with him after Joeys tucks them in and sings them songs.  If he hasn't already fallen asleep I get to see this tender little look on his face...as if he's just won an olympic medal...when he sees me coming.  It's worth a million dollars to me.  And yet, sometimes I put off going in there just to "get things done".   I'm trying to be better about things like this.  When Isaac is in a good mood, well rested and thinking clearly, he is the sweetest brother.  He takes care of G, shares with her, laughs with her, plays with her.  Even when he's not, actually, he is a good big brother.  He tends to hit a little more when he's grumpy but he and G get along incredibly well.  Because of his sensitivity he doesn't take criticism too well but the best thing about him is that he knows this about himself.  He recognizes it and I can always reason with him.  He has been so good about changing his attitude when I remind him to do so.  I see him learning how to control his emotions a little bit better every day.  I understand how hard this is for him and I am so proud to watch him grow and work hard at being more under control.  Recently he has begun laughing somewhat forcefully when he hurts himself;)  When he did this today he said, "I'm working on being tough."  Too cute!

Isaac has become a BIG helper around the house.   He now mops the floor, takes out the trash, sets the table without complaining and sometimes does this without me even asking.  He helps unload the groceries, sorts the laundry and helps Georgie with things that she can't do.   It's quite nice having all that help on house cleaning day!

It seems like a lot of information, but I know there's more;)  I'll think of it as I am trying to fall asleep tonight!  One of these days I'll get around to updating Georgies "profile"!

Easter Sunday...

...minus any really good pictures!
I hate to even make this post without pictures of the kids in their Easter Dress but I happen to have the time tonight.  Ya never know when that's going to come around again, right?!  Sunday was quite a busy day for us so I didn't get around to getting pictures of the kids.  I also wasn't very happy with the weather that day...rain, rain, thunder, overcast, cold.  Whoever heard of such an Easter?  But the bunny came anyway:





And the Easter Egg Hunt...well
You see, exhibit A above.  Georgie came in after 2 seconds with no eggs.  She's not much for rain.  (No this is not her easter dress but it is her fifth outfit of the day)
Rain didn't stop some of the big kids from hunting.
Joey got a picture of my Easter Table Setting;)  It made me feel good that he appreciates my hard work:)  We had three families over for dinner and there were some delicious contributions!  Thanks friends!  
Oh ya, the centerpiece tucked into Gigi's new Easter Basket that I found at the local antique store that I LOVE!  I think it's too cute to hunt eggs with, don't you?  Shouldn't I just keep it for home decor?  I will be adding to this post in a few Sundays...when the kids re wear their Easter gear on a beautiful spring day and I get some perfect shots!

Easter Nests

One of our few Easter Traditions:
Easter Nests
Begin with some crushed shredded wheat cereal.  
(the big plain biscuits work best)
Then throw some chocolate chips (3 parts chocolate), some peanut butter (1 part peanut butter) and a few T of butter into a microwave safe bowl.  Microwave in 30 second intervals to avoid burning.
dip your finger in the melted concoction and spread it all over your face.


Drop large spoonfuls onto waxed paper and shape into nests.  Fill with chocolate or peanut butter eggs.  These make cute decorations for your easter table as well as good gifts for the neighbor and treats for school classes.

*Note:  We like dark chocolate and natural peanut butter but you can use any variety of chocolate that you prefer.  Obviously, for a sweeter nest, use milk, then semi-sweet for a little bit richer etc.  

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Sao Paulos' got Nothin' on Altus

the carnival comes to altus

sheer joy on the bumper cars with dad
beep beep
"do you want to do that again, G?"  
umm..no
weeeeeee
i'm not scared!
 seeing your face makes me feel a little safer, dad  
(but dad pays the price afterward with some nausea...
kind of like those rear facing station wagon seats)
and, G, the only ride she'd have anything to do with  
who can resist a pretty pink pony? 

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Squeaky Clean

Early Bathtime + Perfect Light +
 Squeaky Clean, Beautiful Children =












Happy Birthday, Daddy!

Happy Birthday Joey!
We celebrated for two days this year!  
(hence the day late post)
On his REAL birthday we had a party at his work.  The ladies at the office were so kind to pitch in on a potluck lunch complete with presents and a decorated office!  Darnit where was my camera!  It was hilarious.  Explanations wouldn't do it justice.  That evening, after Isaacs soccer game, we went to Applebees ( I know yucky, but our choices are slim here okay...and we had a gift card;)
Today we had his birthday dinner at home:

Marinated Steak
"Green Fries"
Key Lime Cheescake
 (this was supposed to be the last picture...not sure what happened)
Grilled Flat Bread
Happy Birthday to you...
Happy Birthday to you...Happy Birthday dear Daddy, Happy Birthday to you!

Favorite things about Daddy:
Isaac:  "Daddy plays guitar for me and teaches me how to play soccer"
Georgie:  "Daddy pushes me on the horsey swing...and the park"
Me:  "I love that Joey loves me for who I am, even when I'm upset, he lets me be me, inspires me to be a more honest person, and I can talk to him about anything in the whole wide world."

We love you, Joey and are so grateful for you. 

We Can't Forget...

...about the Huddlestons visit!
What a pleasant surprise we had planned for Isaac back in January!  His best friend (he reminded us of that again tonight) came in late on a Saturday night for a long weekend visit.  Because it was somewhat of a last minute idea, I decided to keep it a secret from Isaac.  He was so excited and, not surprisingly, they picked up right where they left off.

Isaac was ecstatic to find out that Samuel also had developed a deep love for lightsaber fighting and Star Wars since our move.  I think they must be kindred spirits;)


I was so glad to have Anne-Marie in town for a visit as well.  I learned so much from her, as always, about the benefits of eating vegan, politics, education and the list continues.  Georgie loves Anne-Marie too.  She took her first steps to Anne-Marie and not by coincidence.  She always pulled for A-M from the time she knew how to do so.  We can't wait for our visit to San Antonio!  Thanks for driving all that way to see us!